What do you look for in a....

[Hannah_L]

Guy?
or gal (if your a guy ;) )

And it cant contain the words 'Skander Keynes' or 'William Moseley'!!!! Ok??!! :D

Okay mine are..
Have to be taller then me (im 5'6)
Have a handsome face (preferably blond hair)
Loyal
Well built/ muscly
Have to be older then me (im 15, so, 16-18)
Generous
Mature
Intelligent
And must have nice eyes!

I dont ask for much! :p

[♣Teh Deviant♣]

Cool thread..
OK.
My standards are:
Black hair
Brown Eyes
At lest 5 foot 3
Must know Taekwondo
Must play coronet and flute
must be in the movie the chronicles of Narnia...
Hmmm. I wonder if there are similarities between this and, I don't know, maybe the BOY ON MY SIGGY!!! (YOu said, we couldn't name the S word!! or the W word!)

Sofia :D

[Jordo]

Guy?
or gal (if your a guy ;) )

And it cant contain the words 'Skander Keynes' or 'William Moseley'!!!! Ok??!! :D

Okay mine are..
Have to be tall
Have a handsome face (preferably blond hair)
Loyal
Well built/ muscly
Have to be older then me.

i dont really care about height, they just cant be shorter than me, dark hair, funny, athletic, have to be older than me, dark eyes, likes music, like chocolate, caring, and yes, hot. :D

[WillsGirl]

Okay well to tell you the truth I think that looks are just a plus. I care more about the actual personality.
BUT he HAS to be older than me AND taller than me And I'm only 5'4 so that's not hard. :o
Okay, he has to be very mature,
understanding,
caring,
loving,
strong (in personality but muscles are nice :D)
a good leader.
Someone who isn't afraid to hold me in his arms.
A Christian
approved of by my father and brothers.
Have a good job (He needs to be able to support me)
someone who has hopes and dreams/goals.
Someone who will just sit with me and talk with me, really listen.
Someone who will take the time to REALLY get to know me.
okay I could go on and on because I am a dreamer at heat but yeah... I'll stop now. :o

[Smog]

Hmmm...Interesting that none of the profiles for guys have included "can quote the entire first season of 'Star Trek'" or "has entire cast of LOTR in action figures, and can reanact the movies" :p

Anyway, I would say my number one priority is a godly woman (however, I am reformed, so this is a very difficult priority to meet ;)), everything after that is open as far as I'm concerned.

[Jordo]

Okay well to tell you the truth I think that looks are just a plus. I care more about the actual personality.
BUT he HAS to be older than me AND taller than me And I'm only 5'4 so that's not hard. :o
Okay, he has to be very mature,
understanding,
caring,
loving,
strong (in personality but muscles are nice :D)
a good leader.
Someone who isn't afraid to hold me in his arms.
A Christian
approved of by my father and brothers.
Have a good job (He needs to be able to support me)
someone who has hopes and dreams/goals.
Someone who will just sit with me and talk with me, really listen.
Someone who will take the time to REALLY get to know me.
okay I could go on and on because I am a dreamer at heat but yeah... I'll stop now. :o


yes!!! all of that!!! especially the Christian part!!!!! :D

[WillsGirl]

Hmmm...Interesting that none of the profiles for guys have included "can quote the entire first season of 'Star Trek'" or "has entire cast of LOTR in action figures, and can reanact the movies" :p

Anyway, I would say my number one priority is a godly woman (however, I am reformed, so this is a very difficult priority to meet ;)), everything after that is open as far as I'm concerned.

Eeew I don't want a super nerd! LOL. A HELTHY enjoyment of a movie is one thing obsesive behaviour scares me. LOL

Thanks Deepnarnianess! Great minds think alike! :D

[tgraveline]

Hmm...Do you really want to know? How about I do this in rhyme...eh?

I don't have much of a care
But she must certinaly have hair
And she must be fair
So I don't have to always bring the fanfare

A christian, a must
Where she can be just
For others, she must not lust
Her will, must never sway with the wind gust

Oh and a fine cook
Who doesn't mind me reading, a book
And the world together we shall seek and look
And each other shall have never forsook

PS i made that up on the fly, lol

tg

[Rhyanidd]

cool poem tg!

I guess I look for someone who can put up with my crap,
is a Christain,
loves to read and has read as much as me,
a good singing voice would be nice,
umm I like the dark skin and such but I dont think I really care,
I dont really intend to get married so why I am putting up requirements is beyond me...
oh and there is a whole bunch more that my friend and I made up and wrote down but I would have to go find them and I dont feel like moving,
oh and yes I want a guy who has the entire lotr cast in action figures and can quote the entire first season of star trek (jkjkjkjkjkjkjk) lol no!! though I do love star trek, hmmm can you quote the entire first season of MASH?? and which star trek? the next generation, dsn, or voyager, no I am just kidding!!! :p :p :p

[Smog]

Eeew I don't want a super nerd! LOL. A HELTHY enjoyment of a movie is one thing obsesive behaviour scares me. LOL

Thanks Deepnarnianess! Great minds think alike! :D

So being obsessed with William Mosely is healthy?:p

[Jordo]

cool poem tg!

I guess I look for someone who can put up with my crap,
is a Christain,
loves to read and has read as much as me,
a good singing voice would be nice,
umm I like the dark skin and such but I dont think I really care,
I dont really intend to get married so why I am putting up requirements is beyond me...
oh and there is a whole bunch more that my friend and I made up and wrote down but I would have to go find them and I dont feel like moving,
oh and yes I want a guy who has the entire lotr cast in action figures and can quote the entire first season of star trek (jkjkjkjkjkjkjk) lol no!! though I do love star trek, hmmm can you quote the entire first season of MASH?? and which star trek? the next generation, dsn, or voyager, no I am just kidding!!! :p :p :p


ooh, i like the "good singing voice"!!!! and the dark skin, although i dont really care either.

[Christine~Pevensie]

Hmm what i look for in a guy?

Taller than me but not to tall... the height for a perfect dancing partner!
Being Christian is a plus.
Can make me smile/laugh even in my saddest state.
Someone i can have healthy little arguements here and there with...
Someone who takes the time to get to know me and my family.
Respects me for who i am
Someone i can have hours of conversation with.
He has to be HUGGABLE !!!!
someone who doesnt act tough all the time, shows their emotions, shares them with me.
someone who doesnt get jealous easily.
MUSICAL is a definite plus.
is cool about watching chick flicks with me.

thats what i can think of for now....

[Jordo]

Hmm what i look for in a guy?

Taller than me but not to tall... the height for a perfect dancing partner!
Being Christian is a plus.
Can make me smile/laugh even in my saddest state.
Someone i can have healthy little arguements here and there with...
Someone who takes the time to get to know me and my family.
Respects me for who i am
Someone i can have hours of conversation with.
He has to be HUGGABLE !!!!
someone who doesnt act tough all the time, shows their emotions, shares them with me.
someone who doesnt get jealous easily.
MUSICAL is a definite plus.
is cool about watching chick flicks with me.

thats what i can think of for now....

good!! all of that except for the watching chick flicks with me. he wouldnt have to. im more of a drama person, like hotel rwanda and stuff like that

[narnianfoxx]

hmm..what do i look for in a guy?

+a Christian..one who knows what hes talking about
+i need to be attracted to him...but height, hair color, and all of that..not important
+likes me for me
+honest
+a gentleman
+smart
+fun
+fun to be around
+can make me smile/laugh
+energetic
+himself
+someone who i can talk to
+one who can be romantic or something
+just all around awesome

[Jordo]

hmm..what do i look for in a guy?

+a Christian..one who knows what hes talking about
+i need to be attracted to him...but height, hair color, and all of that..not important
+likes me for me
+honest
+a gentleman
+smart
+fun
+fun to be around
+can make me smile/laugh
+energetic
+himself
+someone who i can talk to
+one who can be romantic or something
+just all around awesome


TRUE!!!! TRUE!!!!!! all of those ROCK!!!!! :D

[~I<3Skandar!~]

He has to be...

1. Funny(MUST)
2. at least 5'6 (i'm 5'10 so thats pretty resonable)
3. Smart (I need someone who can have an Intellectual conversation)
4. Good taste in Music
5. Honest and Trustworthy
:)

[Christine~Pevensie]

i have two words or maybe its one?

BEST FRIEND :D

[Jordo]

He has to be...

1. Funny(MUST)
2. at least 5'6 (i'm 5'10 so thats pretty resonable)
3. Smart (I need someone who can have an Intellectual conversation)
4. Good taste in Music
5. Honest and Trustworthy
:)


those are good!!!!!!! whoa, you're 5'10!!!! how old are you?!?!?! :eek:

[Jordo]

i have two words:

WILLIAM MOSELEY !!!!!!

mwahahahaha !!!! ; )


:eek: oooh, you're gonna get slaughtered. you're not supposed to say that...

[Christine~Pevensie]

ahh i knew it.. ok ok..i was only joking but im gunna go and edit it now... :(

[glamel]

Hmm...Do you really want to know? How about I do this in rhyme...eh?

I don't have much of a care
But she must certinaly have hair
And she must be fair
So I don't have to always bring the fanfare

A christian, a must
Where she can be just
For others, she must not lust
Her will, must never sway with the wind gust

Oh and a fine cook
Who doesn't mind me reading, a book
And the world together we shall seek and look
And each other shall have never forsook

PS i made that up on the fly, lol

tg


great poem!!! :D

my ideal guy would be:
1. one who loves me
2. honest
3. thoughtful
4. not cheater
5. a man with his own ideals
6. a good Christian
7. a good friend
8. one who can protect and fight for me
9. one who knows how to listen
10. one who can cry or laugh with me

basically all i really needed is the first one, even if hes a mess, if we do really love each other, all the negative things will be positive then.

[tgraveline]

Thanks to those who liked my little poem.

tg

[TheReaper12131993]

I personally dont think there is any guy like what ya'll is saying-NO guy is that perfect :( to bad...

[stronger_WM]

My ..well good guy:
1) makes me feel wild and safe at the same time
2) funny, but romantic
3) good personality
4) good looks

[TheReaper12131993]

My guy?...

1.he makes a difference
2. he is strong but still opens the car door
3.he must be at least 5'9" (im 5'8 and cant stand short guys as boyfriends)
4.he is intrested in me not my looks but my personality
5.must have future plans
6. respects me
7. i like blonde hair
8. must have a couple detentions in school-i like rebels (to an extent)
9. must be up-to-date(clothes,music,ext.)
10. has to be clean(clipped nails,smells fresh, white teeth,ext.)-braces dont matter!!
11. has to be a christain-doesnt mean he has to go to church EVERY sunday
thats not all but its all i can think of now so...

[Rhyanidd]

I think I basically agree with most everything!!! umm I think I want a guy who isnt too sensitive, I am very sarcastic so if he is sensitive then it would not be good, but also some what sensitive to the way I feel, I'll try to be the same back!

[Dora_the_explora]

Hmm what i look for in a guy?

Taller than me but not to tall... the height for a perfect dancing partner!
Being Christian is a plus.
Can make me smile/laugh even in my saddest state.
Someone i can have healthy little arguements here and there with...
Someone who takes the time to get to know me and my family.
Respects me for who i am
Someone i can have hours of conversation with.
He has to be HUGGABLE !!!!
someone who doesnt act tough all the time, shows their emotions, shares them with me.
someone who doesnt get jealous easily.
MUSICAL is a definite plus.
is cool about watching chick flicks with me.

thats what i can think of for now....


Yep,I agree!

Apart from the christian part.
He has to look good as well!!

[high_kingpeter]

I like thin tall guys. Hair color I don't mind, just so long as it looks good. I love blue, green, or hazel eyes in a guy. I LOVE dimples. Accents are good too. I want him to be extremely smart, and very talkative and funny.

[Narniababe123]

Lets see...

For me...

*Is medium height--somewhere between 4 ft 5 and 5 ft 5
* Decent looks (he doesn't have to be a total hottie)
*Has to love music
*Romantic
*Any color hair is fine, but I prefer brown over all others
*Kind
*Considerate
*Good natured
*Will really get to know me
*Listens to my hopes and dreams
*Has hopes and dreams of his own
*Has to like writing
*Doesn't have to be well built, but it would be nice...

That's about it...
-narniababe123

[The Prince]

LOL, I am not going to tell the whole world ;)

[WillsGirl]

So being obsessed with William Mosely is healthy?:p

No it is NOT

[Christine~Pevensie]

LOL, I am not going to tell the whole world ;)

awwh... now how are we gunna know if we fit ur description?? ;) :D

[glamel]

No it is NOT


because she is not obsessed

[glamel]

awwh... now how are we gunna know if we fit ur description?? ;) :D


hmm,.. looks like youre on to something, huh??? hehehehe :D :D

[Christine~Pevensie]

does crazy count as healthy???

*looks around*

I didnt think so....

[*IOWW the Iasc*]

So being obsessed with William Mosely is healthy?:p

I think so. ^_^

Well, really a guy for me needs 3 basic things...

*He has to be funny

*He has to be loyal

* He has to love me as much as I'd love him


Religion isn't a big deal with me, because everyone believes something different. Also, if he acts all gangster, uses racial slurrs and/or uses 'gay' or 'retarded' as an insult, he will drop MAJORLY on my like-o-meter (Yes, I have a Like-o-meter so leave me alone. ^_^)

[glamel]

*dials 911,

*hello, (whispering) someone here in the DL is having a mental problem at the moment
come quick,

*silently walks away,...

[The Prince]

awwh... now how are we gunna know if we fit ur description?? ;) :D
LOL I doubt if you ive anywhere near me so who cares :D

[*IOWW the Iasc*]

LOL I doubt if you ive anywhere near me so who cares :D

lol obviously she does...

[Christine~Pevensie]

haha im just playing around with you!

we girls are just curious to find out what guys look for in a girl...

[Gryphon]

Religion isn't a big deal with me, because everyone believes something different. Also, if he acts all gangster, uses racial slurrs and/or uses 'gay' or 'retarded' as an insult, he will drop MAJORLY on my like-o-meter (Yes, I have a Like-o-meter so leave me alone. ^_^)
well, you need to take Religion into account because some people believe in some pretty whacko stuff. If your going to have children with a guy who believes in beating children and wife into submission then your not going to be very happy. When it comes to children, then you will both be disagreeing on what to teach them and you and your children could be raised in a home where the parents dont agree on what to teach them.

now as for the question in mind, my guy has to

1, be a diciple like me
2, love his mama (haha, or just family in general)
3, be steady in finances
4, have a job
5, be smarter than me
6, be respectable
7, he cant be a pansy
8, he cant be touchy (i wont go past holding hands first kiss is for the wedding day :D )
9, has to agree to courtship as opposed to dating (courtship really does knock out the losers)

so yeah, i have high standards and i wont lower them for anyone. I owe it to alot of people to marry someone really worth it.

[*IOWW the Iasc*]

well, you need to take Religion into account because some people believe in some pretty whacko stuff. If your going to have children with a guy who believes in beating children and wife into submission then your not going to be very happy. When it comes to children, then you will both be disagreeing on what to teach them and you and your children could be raised in a home where the parents dont agree on what to teach them. .

I disagree. I know there are some very whacko religions, such as Tom Cruise and his Scientology deal. Do you think I would marry someone or have children with him If I thought he would do stuff like that? You don't marry people who you've just met, you get to know and trust them. That's what the whole point of marriage is: to trust and love together. If I strongly disagree with what he thinks then I won't have a relationship with him. When I said I don't care about his religion, that means I'm not going to judge him on what religion he is, because that in my eye is very shallow, and stupid.
If you love someone it shouldn't matter what religion he or she is. I've seen so many people reject other people because of their religion and creed before they even get to know them. It's sick, and I would never do it. Almost all of my friends are of different religion. Some are Catholic, some Christian, some lutheran, some Mormon, I have 3 others that are Budhist, Atheist, and Jewish. Then others who don't even have a religion. Fact of the matter is it religion shouldn't help you judge others. And I strongly believe in that.

[Narborg]

They must be maned Anna Poppelwell hehehe :D :D

Seriously the need
1. To be a Christian
2. to be joyfull and have a good sence of hummer
3. Ralativlly good looking if possible
4. They can't be a vegetiean.

I think thats about it, therase dosent really mater as long as they want the relationship to work.

[narnianfoxx]

w00t narborg..those are good

[Gryphon]

I disagree. I know there are some very whacko religions, such as Tom Cruise and his Scientology deal. Do you think I would marry someone or have children with him If I thought he would do stuff like that? You don't marry people who you've just met, you get to know and trust them. That's what the whole point of marriage is: to trust and love together. If I strongly disagree with what he thinks then I won't have a relationship with him. When I said I don't care about his religion, that means I'm not going to judge him on what religion he is, because that in my eye is very shallow, and stupid.
If you love someone it shouldn't matter what religion he or she is. I've seen so many people reject other people because of their religion and creed before they even get to know them. It's sick, and I would never do it. Almost all of my friends are of different religion. Some are Catholic, some Christian, some lutheran, some Mormon, I have 3 others that are Budhist, Atheist, and Jewish. Then others who don't even have a religion. Fact of the matter is it religion shouldn't help you judge others. And I strongly believe in that.

i dont think judging people is good. but in fact there are religions out there that you might want to avoid in a marraige. And about "true love" VS "religion" well, unless your a believer in Christ i see no point in continuing. I dont want to dishonor you or try to start a fight, im just a person that tells the truth.

[Smog]

*Is Obsessed with Will*, would you mind if I asked what religious convictions (if any) you hold?

You see, I am a Christian, and I would never marry anyone if they did not believe in Christ and submit to His lordship.

"True Love" as you say is not that important in a relationship because in the end, "love" is fleeting, and it will pass away with the day (I am using the term "love" in the sense of a feeling that one may have towards another, not in the biblical sense which is a duty that one fulfills to another).

What is important in any marriage is the truth, and seeing that I believe in the truth of Christ, I would never comprimise the Truth of my Lord for a pretty face and some butterflies in my tummy.

(However, I do not mean this in any way as an insult against you, I am simply stating my believes in order to further the discussion)

[onlymystory]

he has to drive a pickup. *cuz there's something women like about a pickup man*

[You_set_my_soul_on_fire]

Hmm... guys leave *is obsessed with Wil* alone. I know what it's like to be picked on at forums and it's very hurtful.

My guy would have to like rock bands, preferab;y bands like 12 Stones, Alter Bridge, anything Mainstream like TFK, he has to be in a band, he has to be sweet and have great morals.

I won't say he has to be a Christian because God might pair me up with someone who isn't a Christian.

I also like dark red hair...i think that's hot, lol. Nothing else in the physical area.

[*IOWW the Iasc*]

i dont think judging people is good. but in fact there are religions out there that you might want to avoid in a marraige. And about "true love" VS "religion" well, unless your a believer in Christ i see no point in continuing. I dont want to dishonor you or try to start a fight, im just a person that tells the truth.


Are you suggesting that I don't believe in Christ?

[*IOWW the Iasc*]

*Is Obsessed with Will*, would you mind if I asked what religious convictions (if any) you hold?

I'm Catholic, if not a little more Christian. My father is Catholic and my Mother Christian so I'm actually a little of both, and share beleifs of both, even though they are very similar. I believe in Christ and don't appreciate those who find my beliefs false.

Oh and You_set_my_soul_on_fire I appreciate the support, but I wouldn't want you to get mixed into this because of me. I've been to many forums before and know how much arguing there can be, adn how much it can hurt. Thank you all the same.

[giselle]

For some strange reason, I've always said that I want a guy to be taller than me, intelligent, a true gentleman with an excellent behaviour; however, everyone I've fell in love with has been shorter than me, less intelligent than me, not the kind of gentleman at all and mischievous lads.

So, now I only want him to be a nice person to talk with, and who always has something interesting to talk about; someone who makes me laugh and who is always willing to hug me whether I need it or not.

[king_phiilip]

what i look for :

1 Christian
2 friendly
3 smart
4 attractive
5 my parents like her and her parents like me
6 doesn't mind being around physically or mentally handicaped people (my brothers MR)
7 hard working doesn't mind sweating and getting dirty
8 a lady not rude

[william is a hottie06]

what i like in a guys um...... good looks good heart must be a christian and believe ain god um tall not way 2 tall no more than 6 foot about brown or hair luvs having fun and easy 2 talk 2 um alot like well that word the w word lol

[william is a hottie06]

thats goo king phillip lol so u live in kansas??? thats far well for me i live in texas

[king_phiilip]

thats goo king phillip lol so u live in kansas??? thats far well for me i live in texas

Yes i live in boring old kansas in a little town called El Dorado

[WUgurl24]

Hmm...let's see...what do I like in a guy...yeah I notice looks first, but eventually that doesn't become the main thing. I mean they still need to have nice appearance but they don't have to be the hottest guy on the planet. Hair color doesn't matter and neither does eye color (though I have to say that a guy friend of mine has the brightest blue eyes I've ever seen up close...). They need to be a Christian and personality is another big thing for me. I think I would like it if we knew each other as friends first and then a relationship formed because those usually last longer and you know more of what you're getting into if you enter a relationship with that person. I know that second half wasn't what i like in a guy but how I would prefer the relationship to start out. Oh well, that's all off my chest now ;)

[littlepaulerina]

devout catholic...someone who will give me hope when i just feel like giving up...respectful...someone who will motivate me to do my best...hot... :D

[Smog]

Oh and You_set_my_soul_on_fire I appreciate the support, but I wouldn't want you to get mixed into this because of me. I've been to many forums before and know how much arguing there can be, adn how much it can hurt. Thank you all the same.

*Is obsessed with Will* I'm sorry if anything I said offended you, as this was not my intent. I wasn't trying to start an arguement, rather I was only trying to state my believes in comparison with those that you hold to; thereby stimulating a discussion which would further all of us in our understanding of the truth. In no means was I trying to attack your believes or perpetuate a fight. Are we cool? (Cause I know I am :cool: :p)

And by the way, after reviewing this thread I've made a startling discovery...the majority of women here like men that are; Tall Dark and Handsome :eek: Shocking! ;)

[*IOWW the Iasc*]

Heh, well I was never uncool with you Smog(as far as I know.. :cool: :D )
I just didn't appreciate Gryphon's post very much.

[sukapesta]

*intelligent (i won't say more intelligent than me, but he has to be able to hold an intelligent conversation)
*great sense of humor
*can dance
*speaks english (believe it or not, this is really important to me)
physique doesn't really matter to me, as long as he's healthy, and neither does religion (i've always been attracted to guys who have different religious beliefs from me)...

[*IOWW the Iasc*]

*intelligent (i won't say more intelligent than me, but he has to be able to hold an intelligent conversation)
*great sense of humor
*can dance
*speaks english (believe it or not, this is really important to me)
physique doesn't really matter to me, as long as he's healthy, and neither does religion (i've always been attracted to guys who have different religious beliefs from me)...


THANK YOU! Somebody else doesn't care abobut religion!


OK, I'm good.

[iheartsk]

ok wel....

he has to have brown choccy colour eyes
black hair /or blonde???
personality
mature
serious about wat he is talking about
commitment
loving
caring
sympathetic
handsome
cute
and...
romantic
not stuk up
christian
isnt afraid to hold me
and...
thats about it
oh and
honest

i dont askfor that much hehehehehahahaheheheheahahah

[Namaste]

I stopped looking because I found him nearly 12 years ago. :)

[Jordo]

ok wel....

he has to have brown choccy colour eyes
black hair /or blonde???
personality
mature
serious about wat he is talking about
commitment
loving
caring
sympathetic
handsome
cute
and...
romantic
not stuk up
christian
isnt afraid to hold me
and...
thats about it
oh and
honest

i dont askfor that much hehehehehahahaheheheheahahah


good ones!!!!!! yeah!!!!! i dont know why i didnt think of those...

[Hannah_L]

Wow, it's really quite interesting how much religion influences your views on other people. I, personally don't belong to a religion (and neither do any of the guys I know) so it doesn't make any difference to me.

[Smog]

Well for me, religion isn't just something that I do on a Sunday morning, but it is something that influences every aspect of my life. Therefore will only marry a woman who believes what I believe and trusts in the same providential God. Otherwise, the relationship would not work, because there would be fights about everything in life.

[waterhogboy]

Also, following on from what Smog said. If I went out with a non-Christian, she would accept that I loved God more than I loved her... an I think thats too hard a concept for an athiest to comprehend. They would feel cheated - so it could never work.

[sk8ergirl]

Ok well my guy has 2 b:
cute
5"11
intelligant
humerous
loveable
caring
2 years older
or
same age
and
super HOT!

[Gryphon]

Are you suggesting that I don't believe in Christ?
theres a difference between believeing in him and following him. for a long time even i went through not following him. Jesus commands us not to be unequally yoked with people not of our faith.

1 corinthians 6:14 "Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?" (NIV)

please understand, i dont want to offend you, i just think that since you are my sister in Christ i think you should be aware of this information.

[Rhyanidd]

he has to drive a pickup. *cuz there's something women like about a pickup man*

Yay totally!!!

[SacredSpirit]

WOW there has been only one guy in this whole thread

what i look for in a guy:
funny
sweet
I dont care what race
cute
not super popular
cares alot
dont care what hair color or eye color
alittle emotional
kindof lost
quiet around other people except me


ah....thats about it

oh yeah likes my intrest(LOTR,NARNIA, READING, WRITING, DRAWING, AND IS A CHRISTIAN)

[buffalo]

i like...

smart and into school but likes to have fun
tall like at the very least 5'4"
likes sports
really manly...sensitive but not girly
doesnt matter what hair or eye color
nice body but not a beef cake
cute face
outgoing but not all obnoxious
and they have to like HARRY POTTER and of course the chronicles of narnia

[Hope96]

Anyway, I would say my number one priority is a godly woman (however, I am reformed, so this is a very difficult priority to meet ;)), everything after that is open as far as I'm concerned.
I agree. I would say that #1 priority is definitely a man who is a devout Christian, the kind of man that is defined in the bible. As I see it, I do my best to the godly woman God describes in the bible so there should be a man out there that will hold to that definition as well. :)

[petersusanlucyedmond]

fun
have somewhat a sece of maturity
a fantasy lover
an outside-ish person
have a sense of humor
must not cheat on me or anything like that
be able to keep a secret
can't freak out when i start crying
muscular/ good looking, lol! :)

[Smog]

As I see it, I do my best to the godly woman God describes in the bible so there should be a man out there that will hold to that definition as well. :)

I just keep quoting Proverbs 31 to myself...lol

[Wills_dream_Gf]

Funny
Honest
Not too shy
Mature
Smarter than me...and not just a little, but a lot more
Really cute
Richer than me (I mean I'm not saying I'm looking for a rich guy, but...)
SUPER nice and caring
Would NEVER hurt me in anyway (emotionally, physically, etc.)
Sporty guy (one who hikes, kayaks, mountain climbs, etc.)
Tall (at least 5'10")

and that's all I can think of for now

[Smog]

Well the question is, how rich are you?

[Edengoth]

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v329/Corporal_Hicks/Me%20and%20friends/k5.jpg
Did a answer anyones prayers???? :D

Well, when I look for a GIRL
A.I'm insanely attracted to dark haired girls, I can't explain it
B. moderately okay looking
C. Smart, i can't stand stupid people
D. smarter than me, everyone not as smart as me is a stupid person :) , this makes it easy for me to get my homework done. :D
E.Truethfull, I dislike people who frequently lie, especialy if it's to me.

[Wills_dream_Gf]

Well I'm guessing that's you Edengoth...your'e pretty cute

*and Smog I'm middle-class I guess

[Smog]

http://www.talentbookingusa.com/look-a-likes/images/pierce-brosnan.jpg
I bet I'm an answer some prayers, eh? ;):D

[Wills_dream_Gf]

Who's that? He's a bit too old for me!!! I mean hello I'm only 14 here!!

[Rose]

He has to be christian,taller then me,my age or older,cute, into sports..but not the sit-on-the-couch-with-potato-chips-all-day sport fan...has to at least read the chronicles, and he...well I don't wanna marry an idiot,either...he has to be smart. :D

"No man is worth your tears and the one that is would never make you cry."
^dunno if that is a slightly famous saying or what,I'm not even sure where I found it,lol. :)

[Hope96]

Smog I like your picture.....that cracked me up! Although he is a handsome man, I don't know that he fullfilled my dreams. As I had previously stated....if he isn't a devout christian then his looks wouldn't carry him very far with me. :)

[Narborg]

Blue hear and blone eyes. :D :D

[Gryphon]

I bet I'm an answer some prayers, eh? ;):D

or perhaps a nightmare

[Smog]

or perhaps a nightmare

If you're scared at how hot I am, that's your problem :p;)

[she-elfwarrior19]

What i look for in a guy.
Taller than me
Preferably brown hair
Tanned
Nicely built
Good looks
A fan of sports fantasy,narnia, and enjoys reading swimming
and if this is my hubby im talking about ,when i get married which wont be for a while lol b/c im only a teen lol, well he enjoys something i wont that i wont say...and some people please get your heads out of the gutter !!:Dlol j/k

[Wills_dream_Gf]

What i look for in a guy.
Taller than me
Preferably brown hair
Tanned
Nicely built
Good looks
A fan of sports fantasy,narnia, and enjoys reading swimming
and if this is my hubby im talking about ,when i get married which wont be for a while lol b/c im only a teen lol, well he enjoys something i wont that i wont say...and some people please get your heads out of the gutter !!:Dlol j/k

HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!! :D :D

[Smog]

What i look for in a guy.
Taller than me
Preferably brown hair
Tanned
Nicely built
Good looks
A fan of sports fantasy,narnia, and enjoys reading swimming
and if this is my hubby im talking about ,when i get married which wont be for a while lol b/c im only a teen lol, well he enjoys something i wont that i wont say...and some people please get your heads out of the gutter !!:Dlol j/k

You wicked, evil woman! Get that smut out of the forums! ;):D:p

[Rhyanidd]

or perhaps a nightmare

Yeah I have to agree with Gryphon you are much more a nightmare then a prayer.....and you know that guy looks vaugly familar....how can I be sure its you? And not somebody else???

[Monkeh]

It is somebody else lol. Thats why he look familiar. I just can't remember his name.

[she-elfwarrior19]

I dont what you guys are thinking, its something gross that you guys were thinking i was thinking and its not something gross that i was thinking. Grr thats why i warned you people to get your heads out of the gutters lol please my goodness gracious :o

[she-elfwarrior19]

WHOA!!!the monkeys dance!!!!!!!!!!!!::D:D:D:D

[peterluvr4evr89]

blonde hair
brown,hazel,or green eyes
muscley(NOT made in a gym)
taller but not much so about 5'6
smart
has some idea of what he wants to do career wise
actually calls when he says he will!
kind
loving
but most importantly be a christian!
looks like a lot but no not really(double negative but hey who cares?)

[Queen Swanwhite]

I look for

Tall
Dark
Handsome
Kind
Soft skin :o
Plays rugby
Minty breath (but not too minty)

[she-elfwarrior19]

LMBO the famous lines of :"tall dark handsome" lol:)

[peterluvr4evr89]

why "minty breath"!

[Monkeh]

You know something. I'm a no go for more than half the ladies/girls here lol.

Hmmm. Might aswell do this.

Not to short, has to be over about 5'5".
Brunette(Don't like Blonds lol)
Enjoy playing and watching sports.
Love the outdoors, espcially kayaking.
Like to have fun.
Can put up with me ;)
Likes the same type of movies and music as me.
Good Looking.
Likes to just relax and not do anything occasionally.

You know something? I think I just described my g/f. :p

[Queen Swanwhite]

why "minty breath"!

Why do you think? ;)

[she-elfwarrior19]

nt care what breath it is as long as its not gross:D

[Rhyanidd]

Just because I am bored I am going to compare myself to what Monkeh just said (and dont take this seriously, though I will be telling the truth, I was just bored and not trying to like flirt or something!!)

Not to short, has to be over about 5'5". Well I am 5'4 and still growing.

Brunette(Don't like Blonds lol)Yep I am a brunette

Enjoy playing and watching sports.I enjoy playing some sports, but they arent my favorite because when I played soccer with an unofficial group some kid made up half the rules and the adults listened to him cuz he had played on an acctuall team before,watching I dont enjoy so much, mainly cuz I dont always understand the rules.

Love the outdoors, espcially kayaking.I have only Kayaked one or twice, but I love to canoe, and I love the outdoors!

Like to have fun.Well whats your definition of fun? I like to have fun, but what you think of as fun and what I think of as fun may be completely different!

Can put up with me ;)What are you like??

Likes the same type of movies and music as me.What music/movies do you like??I dont think we will agree on the music few people like the same music I do, and none of them are boys....I dont think.

Good Looking.Beauty is in the eye of the beholder! Ok according to a lot of my friends and all my sisters with just a little grooming I am gorgeous. Now according to me, I am not ugly but I am not gorgeous, I think I just have a "nice" face.I mean I like it. But I dont know how guys see it.

Likes to just relax and not do anything occasionally.Oh yeah!

You know something? I think I just described my g/f. :pWell I am glad you like your g/f! That tends to be a good sign!

[peterluvr4evr89]

Why do you think? ;)
whoops! pineapple moment!(brown on the outside blonde on the inside!)

[peterluvr4evr89]

ya'll i have something to add to mine....
MUST be able to take,understand,and use sarcasum(sp?)!
also kinda has to have a clean crimenal record cause somehow i think that my father would check(aye ye ye)!and has to have decent grades and aproveable by my father's standards which i should probabley add are rather high and these thing are for the dude's safety cause well um lets just say that my father can get a little cariied away where boys are concerned!

[Smog]

ya'll i have something to add to mine....
MUST be able to take,understand,and use sarcasum(sp?)!
also kinda has to have a clean crimenal record cause somehow i think that my father would check(aye ye ye)!and has to have decent grades and aproveable by my father's standards which i should probabley add are rather high and these thing are for the dude's safety cause well um lets just say that my father can get a little cariied away where boys are concerned!

Sounds like your dad is a man after my own heart! ;) I have two sisters, and I'm going to have fun when they start bringing home men they want to date :D

[kitten20]

you live in england that is soooooooooooooo kool i live in america that is asome huh not jk if you dont know what that means then fine it means just kidding. Anyway so what do you do there do you have parks and do you have an accent????????

[Edengoth]

Man, you guys are all looking for guys that are only about 5'6"......


I'm 6'4" tall....a massive giant it seems

[Monkeh]

Not to bad. Mt best friend is 6'10". A full foot taller than me. Makes people do a double take when we're walking down the street lol. The funniest part though, our other mates g/f, barely makes it over his waist :D

[onlymystory]

my brother has an alarm clock his girlfriend's dad sent him. so every morning he wakes up to, "Good morning, Eric. I have a double barreled shotgun and 40 acres in my back yard. Have a nice day."

How's that for making sure your daughter is in good hands? hehe.

[Smog]

my brother has an alarm clock his girlfriend's dad sent him. so every morning he wakes up to, "Good morning, Eric. I have a double barreled shotgun and 40 acres in my back yard. Have a nice day."

How's that for making sure your daughter is in good hands? hehe.

HAHAHAHAH! LMBO! That's brilliant! Where can I get one of those???

[Twilightdryadhobbit]

A Christian who will love only me, and doesn't go around pursueing girls for short term relationships. I also would prefer someone who is: Not fat, not hairy, has a nice voice, and is good looking. I would also like someone who is smart, and LISTENS TO ME! I can't really have any kind of friendship, or love relationship without that. We should have basically the same theological beliefs, and he must like homeschooling, and kids. If we're talking about what I find attractive in guys, I like guys who are skinny, have nice eyes, and I like blond hair, or cute curly hair. I like long hair actually, as long as it's not ridiculous, or greasy.

[Smog]

Oh, I got one; She has to be competent with firearms :cool:;)

[Rhyanidd]

Well then my grandmother would be perfect...lol, j/k. but she was, dont know if she still is, a very good shot, and would hit her target every time...pity any man who attacked her...gotta get her to teach me that stuff...that would come in very handy when dealing with certain boys....

[Jordo]

Well then my grandmother would be perfect...lol, j/k. but she was, dont know if she still is, a very good shot, and would hit her target every time...pity any man who attacked her...gotta get her to teach me that stuff...that would come in very handy when dealing with certain boys....

i wanna learn to shoot a gun...my cousin does...i should ask her to teach me...then i could beat off all the sick wierdos that like to kidnap peoples...thats a good one though, someone that can shoot a gun...then they can save ur life when ur in danger... ;)

[Edengoth]

Shooting guns is realy fun, I'd encourage you to do so.

[theCleanBean]

Tall. Perferably around 6'
Cute
Funny
Romantic
Just fun to hang with
A Good Listener who can respond back
Nice
Shares same interests
Smart
Brown heads

[glamel]

a guy that will obey and follow my orders. :D

[theCleanBean]

HAHAHAHA glamel. Very funny

[Smog]

i wanna learn to shoot a gun...my cousin does...i should ask her to teach me...then i could beat off all the sick wierdos that like to kidnap peoples...thats a good one though, someone that can shoot a gun...then they can save ur life when ur in danger... ;)

Yeah, a good revolver can equalize any fight...;) Plus shooting is alot of fun

[Rhyanidd]

go glamel!! my thoughts exactly!!

[Edengoth]

go glamel!! my thoughts exactly!!
NO NO NO!!!! everyman's worst fear come true!!!

[Rhyanidd]

NO NO NO!!!! everyman's worst fear come true!!!

Acctually Edengoth A guy I know told me "Every guy knows about you, you beat us all up all the time." I told him that was the nicest compliment ever recieved from anybody!...I think all the boys around me just kinda...well their spirts went "KAPLUNK!"

[Moe92]

hmm....what do i want in a guy?

He has to be a Christian.
i dont really care about hight
must be sweet.
and funny
likes Christian rock and screamers.
umm

brown hair
nice eyes. and so on and so forths

[*Hawaii Beach Babe*]

If he is a Christian, he can't be one of those Christians where everything to them is God and all they listen to is Christian music.
He has to be hot.
He has to be kind.
He has to like to party.
He has to have a job.
He (preferably) has to be an actor.

[sarahprincess]

Ok, here we go..

I have to be somewhat attracted to him
He must be sweet and nice
I would prefer if he were taller than me
I prefer darker hair, but it doesnt truly matter
Must love dogs (haha now I wanna see the movie again..)
Must be Christian
Must like movies

yeppers, there is my list..

[Jed of Spare Oom]

Hmm. What would I look for in a girl?
1. a Christian.
2. Nice personality
Hair, eye color don't matter
o should be younger than me and shorter also
Thats about all i can think of so far. Not to picky

[iheartsk]

this is a tough one!!!

well:
dark hair [longish like ska....'s style]
brown eyes
Stars in narnia who plays edmund ;u said we werent aloud to say the s word or the w word :o
a good personality
christian
handsome
nice
caring
loving
thoughtful
knows when ur down
taller then me
older then me
isnt afraid to hold me in his arms
pacient
[rich na doesnt worry me] (but it would be a bonus)
from another country like ENGLAND!!!

[Rhyanidd]

If he is a Christian, he can't be one of those Christians where everything to them is God and all they listen to is Christian music.
He has to be hot.
He has to be kind.
He has to like to party.
He has to have a job.
He (preferably) has to be an actor.

I agree with all of those except #2 and the last one by the by your last one...are you hinting at will????

[narniafreak216]

Lets see...
1. I'm usually attracted to guys who can make me laugh
2. They have to be able to take a joke(because usually the guys i like make fun of me(i know it sould like were back in the first grade but high schoolers do that)) and i joke back
3. some kind of foreign accent (i.e. not an american accent)is a plus
4. kind
5. A CHRISTIAN!
6. looks dont matter (the only pet peeve i have is no hairy chest(hehe) :D
and thats all ive offically decided on(ive got lots of time before i have to worry about dating(only friends for now))I'm only a freshman(14 years old)

[stronger_WM]

I'm attracted to a guy right now...this is what I see in him
1. Great music taste
2. He can play the drums (creative, artist whatever)
3. Pretty hot
4. Funny
5. Outgoing personality

CON
1. He's two inches shorter than me

[He-ather]

hmm..(in no order):
1. funny
2. Christian
3. caring
4. virgin
5. no cussing
6. no smoking or drugs or chronic alchoholics[drunkies]
7. respectful
8. punctual
9. reasonably smart
10. devoted (to one girl at a time)
11. sensible
13. courtious
14. confident (but not overly so)
15. moral

the shallow stuff:
1. not too fat or really skinny
2. blue or green eyes
3. sandy blonde hair (not short but not too long)
4. not reeeeeaaaaallly tall or like dwarf status
5. clean
6. nice smelling
7. straight teeth [good smile]
8. clearish complextion
9. somewhat athletic
10. talented at something artsy i.e. acting, musical, drawing...
11. has moolah....
12. a little shy
13. good dresser
14. well rounded
15. OMG HAWTT IZ GEWD!! :p

[Gryphon]

hmm, my turn, i named spiritual traits but no physical ones, i think i shall have fun with this...

1. Hair color- just not blonde. er at least not dyed blonde, reminds me too much of N*Sync and i hate those guys

2. Eye color- preferably blue, after that is green. if he has brown eyes thats cool too :D

3. Taller than me. he can be as tall as God pleases so long as the poor man doesnt have to bend in half to kiss me, lol

4. No extreme body types. No skinny ninnies, no ripped up guys and please no fatties. *shivers*

[Charlie Lovs Skandar]

right he wud hav 2 be
1.Taller than me
2.kind
3.Dark hair
4.Good personality
5.Athletic
6.Older than me (i'm 13)
:)

[DayDreamer]

1 Brown Eyes
2 Brown Hair
3 Kind
4 Funny
5 Smart
6 Athlectic
I don't ask for that much

[peterluvr4evr89]

does anyone have a really really over protective father? cause mine mine barely lets me go to cordinate events9i go to an all girls school)

[Gryphon]

my father has set high standards for me too, but dont worry, hes saving you from alot of trouble.

[glamel]

originally posted by glamel
a guy that will obey and follow my orders.

im still sticking to what i have posted:p
plus he must know the following:
1. wash the dishes, clothes, car
2. iron the clothes
3. must be a good cook
4. one who gives good massage:p
5. one who doesnt get mad... easily.:p

[peterluvr4evr89]

demanding aren't we?

[Lady Larien]

Well my boy needs to be:
taller then me
same age or older then me
brown or green eyes
loves all christian music
God is #1 to him (God ROCKS!!!!!)
nice
loves all of God's creatures
and the list goes on and on.......

[Jordo]

God is #1 to him
preferebly dark hair, but idk
preferebly dark eyes, but idk
athletic
loves rock music
funny
I am #2 to him
lets me make desicions too

[Twilight]

I've contructed many lists, but here are my top:

1. Strong Christian
2. Loves me for me
3. Faithful
4. Affectionate and very romantic ^_^
5. Healthy and fit (no popping-out muscles, though, I think those are gross)
6. Hilarious! (Good-tempered and optimistic)
7. Perceptive/reasonable/open to new ideas and change
8. Good with kids and wants a family
9. Has a cool sense of style
10. Being taller than me by at least three inches would be good!

One important thing I'm going to say that I'd like in a guy is someone who would be the type to suggest dancing in the rain and someone who doesn't mind my crazy antics. :p

[Narnia_Fan]

I don't really ask for much, ;) Jk.I really don't

1. He has to be a true Christian that can honestly claim that God is #1
2. He has to be funny.
3. He has to be able to cook
4. He has to be a animal guy (i luv animals)
5. He has to be a guy who likes to travel
6. He has to be a guy who will think of his family first(after God)
7. There are so many things that i look for in a guy that i'll be suprised if i find one. Actualy some of my "He has to be" are actually "He needs to be." God may change my mind about guys but for now I really am not looking for any.#1 is the only true Has TO BE.Sure I have crushes here and there and sure i used to think having a boyfriend would be cool but now I am waiting for a wedding ring before i do anything.

[Lucy the Marshwiggle]

1. He has to be a born-again Christian.
2. He must have morals and values (tolerance, honesty, etc. )
3. He should be a gentleman.
4. He should love me but should always but God before me.
5. He doesn't have to be handsome or cute or whatever, as long as I love him and care for him, that is all that matters.


Hmm, I can't think of anymore but I'll add to the list later.

[Aravis Kenobi]

What I look for in a guy:

1. Is close to God
2. Loves kids
3. Is respectful
4. Is fun
5. Respects my parents' views and beliefs
6. (most important next to God) being a Southern Baptist or a Baptist
7. Is kind
8. Is thoughtful
9. Is hard-working
10. Has a sense of humor
11. Have the same morals as me
12. as Lucy, love me but put God first
13. also like Lucy, a gentleman
14. is a servant
15. supportive.

[Jadee]

..funny

My age..not too much older..and too much older would be 5 months :rolleyes:

Funny

Brown eyes

Funny

Black or brown hair :D

Funny

My height...

Funny

Is smart...yeah...

Doesn't care how weird I am, or how I look too much

Isn't mean to me..or anyone..really

Can talk (I mean I wanna talk to somebody)

Funny

which equals: my friends, JL! Wahoo. But he is miles away -__- haven't seen him in like 7 months..or my friend Cheng, who I haven't seen in 2 years.

[SimonW]

Well, I personally dun have a preferance. I prefer any girl and appreciate them as they are. :)

[oxford girl]

1. a Christain
2. loves me for me
3. taller than me, I'm 5'7
4. loves to tralvel
5. must be smart
6. my parents must like him, and he must like then
7. hair and eye colur dont really matter but I would like a blond guy with blue eyes
8. must trust me
9. must listen to me
10.must have moral values
11.must like reading
12.kind
13.likes action movies
14.would be a good father
15.must want kids
16.must remember my birthday
17.must love hourses
18.strong, mentaly and phisacly


That's about it, I know I'm kind off picky but oh well, if I think of any more I'll add them

[Lilith]

He has to be FUNNY!! That's the most important thing... :D

And no, he doesn't HAVE to be atheist.. *lol*

[oxford girl]

He has to be FUNNY!! That's the most important thing... :D


I forgot that

19. must be funny
20. must be supportive

[Lioness_Aslan]

I only search for 2 things
1) He doesn't make me change my religion
2) He's got a good heart. :D

[oxford girl]

I only search for 2 things
1) He doesn't make me change my religion
2) He's got a good heart. :D


I keep forgeting ones

21. must have a good heart


my friends keep tilling me that I'll never get married because no guy could be every thing I want

[Narnia_Fan]

Same here, I look for sooo much in a guy that i'll be suprised if i find the right one. But when the right guy comes i know God will change my heart and I'll leave room for give-and-take...I hope.lol.

Ok these are the most important things i can think of at the moment, considering that i am sick and feel like i have a drum in my head!!!

1.like i said before, he Has to be a Christian
2.He needs to be funny
3.He needs to be the kind of guy that i can talk to.(about things that i can't tell anyone else.
4.He needs to like kids...and be good with them
5.He cannot be ill tempered
6.He needs to be fun
7.If he is the right guy then i don't really need to worry about this too much.especially not yet, i mean i am only 13!

[Miss.SunFlower]

1. He has to be christian. (though I'll take methodist or catholics too)
2. A sence of humer is a must-have.
3. He needs to be able to understand me.
4. He needs to be the tiype of person I can talk to.
5. He has to be taller AND older than me. (unless he's like a inch shorter or a month or two younger)
6. He has to like kids, like me.
7. We need to have a lot in commen but not EVERYTHING y'know.

^ not TOO picky y'know, I've seen people who are way worse than 7 things.